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Yamil Senior's avatar

I am often cautious with these types of posts, because many times it's a way of publicly scolding men to "be better" with no real empathy or compassion for their situation or struggles.

But, I was pleasantly surprised to see you were genuinely exploring the deeper aspects of what it means to be a man.

That's what I am about.

You've gained a subscriber today, because I agree with you. Men are much more than just thought or strong. We are also care givers, nutrurers, lovers, teachers, friends, brothers, sons, and fathers. And it's time we started celebrating and recognizing that part of masculinity.

Presence's avatar

Thanks for reading, and I’m glad you read it that way. I try to keep my posts focused on nuance, empathy, and ambiguity. I hope you’ll check out my newest post that expands on this notion of masculinity. If you subscribed, it might be in your inbox.

The Heart of Education's avatar

Thank you for writing. Your vulnerability and honesty is such a gift. A voice so many are wanting to hear

Presence's avatar

Its not easy for me so I appreciate the kind words

Sophia W's avatar

Such an important reminder: real connection doesn’t come from hiding our struggles—it comes from leaning into them, sharing them, and letting others in. Strength isn’t just what we show on the surface; it’s having the courage to be seen fully, flaws and all. 💬✨

Presence's avatar

Thanks for reading and I absolutely agree! Leaning in is where we find the true connection. I hope you’ll check out part 3 that came out today.

Brenda's avatar

I appreciate what you wrote. Your real life experience gave a great picture of how vulnerability and the fear of it plays out. Sharing these parts of ourselves helps to normalize it for everyone.

Presence's avatar

Thanks for the comment. When relevant, I want to make my writing personal for that very reason. It makes it easier for people to relate to.